It's Monday. And many people have this mindset that Monday's are suppose to be horrible and dreadful. It doesn't have to be that way. It's the first day of a new week, meaning time for new memories, new mistakes and new lessons. I am also guilty of thinking that Monday's are horrible when in reality they're not even that bad.
Anyway, the point of this post was to share my thoughts on being thankful and remembering that our lives aren't all that bad. Last year I feel like that was the most unhappiest I have ever been. So many things happened in my personal life, things that I thought I was never going to get over. Things that seemed like such a big deal at that time. And because I'm not good with dealing with heartbreak or bumps that come show up on the road, I became extremely unhappy. I didn't want to do anything. Looking back at it now, although I still get sad about it from time to time, it's not as bad as I made it seem. I felt like I was the most unluckiest person in the world and I was thinking why do I have to suffer. I'm not saying our problems aren't important enough, because they are. But sometimes we get so tied up in our own lives we forget that there are some people out there that have it so so so much worse than we do.
I have been pretty okay since than, but I wish I knew better how to let things go. And how not to make them seem like such a big deal. Shit happens. People make mistakes. There are people out there that will hurt you. But we need to learn to let it go and move on. And we need to focus on the things that make us happy and be thankful for all the things we have. I've decided to make a list of all the things I am thankful for when it feels like everything is going wrong:
-My Doggie
-My best friend
-My mom
-The love of my life
-Coffee
-My journals
-Netflix
-Chocolate
-Tbh any type of candy
-Music
-My flounder stuffed toy
-Books